A new website www.picture4charity.com was officially launched at the Nha Nam book store. A project by travel blogger Dinh Hang in collaboration with her friends who have a common passion of recording life as it happens, through beautiful pictures and photography.
The pictures in the gallery are not just for art, but all money raised from selling the pictures will be donated to a charity organization once every 3 months. OBV was lucky to be chosen as the first organization on the receiving end of the money raised for the 3 months starting July 13th, 2017.
an old article...
With the congregation, especially teenagers who belong in a parish Cho Cau church (30/7 Nguyen Van Qua, 12 District, HCM city), beginning in 2013 was always an occasion with full of the joys and the meaning because they were shared about the love of the life by special person- spellbinder Martino Nguyen Ba Thong. With Martino, this was the fifth time he have come back from US to Vietnam to lead the trip 2013. Once again he came with audiences who always have a soft corner in their heart for him.
an old article...
Mr. Micheal Chan To conversing with Ms. Yen Thao – president of the organization
On December 12th, 2012, the Nhip Cau Hanh Phuc organization (OBV VN) was honored to meet Mr. Micheal Chan To – a professor who teaches cosmetology and massage therapy from Canada, visited and worked with the organization.
The discussion with Mr. Micheal Chan To was fairly open, as he states: “I am Buddhist, but I applaud the works Father Thong has done; that makes me want to contribute my efforts to help the children. When I became a volunteer, I received many blessings.” After sharing important information, he will organize his time and start his teaching and training period for the children of the OBV family.
Thank you very much Mr. Micheal Chan To. May God bless you and your family with peace always. .
Translated by Katherine Pham. The original version in Vietnamese entitled "'Khi Trở Thành Một Tình Nguyện Viên, Đó Là Tôi Được Ban Phước' - Micheal Chan To"
Ladies and Gentlemen,
I don't know what I could possibly say to show you how much it means to OBV to have all the love and support that we have received from these performers, and the combined energy from the guests who attended, the sponsors who were all a part of the fundraising event for OBV Vietnam, as organized by performer Ms. Hien Thuc.
It was a night of music, with love and warmth radiating from all participants, making it a success that was beyond our expectations.
(image from thanhnien.com)
At her age, she should have been playing games, or with her dolls. Instead, she was stalked and prayed upon with unwanted phone calls and letters from Mr. B.
Since she was born to the age of 13 years old, her daughter had been subjected to a series of woes. From traffic accidents to severe burns, to falling into the river. The mother was unable to keep her daughter safe anymore.
To raise her daughter, the matter had to leave their home town of Ca Mau for a job in Binh Duong. One day, the daughter called her mother to report he had been raped by her neighbour, Mr. B. Shocked, the mother left her job and headed home immediately. Arriving home, she saw her daughter was lost, withdrawn into herself.
I came back to the House this morning. Some chickens were foraging for food on the ground, while the fish swam in their pool and the pigeons huddled together in our garden covered by fresh green grass and colorful flowers. We sat talking under the shade our our leafy plants, waiting for our children to come home from school.
They came back, like a flock of young birds. Quickly dropping off their school bags, these tweeting birds started circling a real bird: a parrot, probably the same age as the children.
They rushed to feed the parrot food and water, yelling with excitement and urging the parrot to eat. How wonderful it is to watch the natural 'maternal instinct' come out in these girls! Despite having been through spiritual, emotional and physical trauma, they still have the longing and desire to love, and to care of other smaller and weaker creatures. This is considered to be a natural instinct for all animals....then why did it not apply to their fathers, uncles, stepfather, neighbours who instead of looking after them, had abused them instead?
an old article...
Everybody in the office told each other: “Behave yourself! The new chairwoman might be tough.” We were so nervous and assumed she might be a difficult person after we had received a bunch of her emails requesting us to send reports and annotations. Nobody knew about her, how old she was, how she looked like and whether she was difficult as we thought.
Our first meeting with the new Chairwoman, Dr. Thanh Tam finally took place. Her modest clothing and her smiling gave us the first impression that she was a humble person. Her plane just landed but she stopped by the office anyway for the meeting, carrying a lot of luggage.
She is so friendly and sympathetic with a smiling face
Once again, Lunar New Year of the Rooster 2017 is here upon us.
We sincerely wish all of you bountiful blessings in health, spirit, families, work and life.
We sincerely thank you for your belief and commitment in OBV Mission.
Direct links for References and Addendum:
(1) https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/prostitution Accessed 01/25/2017
(2) https://www.justice.gov/criminal-ceos/prostitution-children Accessed 01/25/2017
(3) http://www.vietcatholic.net/News/Html/213969.htm Accessed 01/27/2017
(4) https://www.amazon.com/Pimpology-Laws-Game-Pimpin-Ken/dp/1416961046 Accessed 01/27/2017
(5) https://www.apa.org/pi/women/programs/trafficking/report.pdf Accessed 01/27/2017
(6) http://www.traumacenter.org/products/pdf_files/Invisible_Chains.pdf Accessed 01/27/2017
(7) https://www.amazon.com/One-Among-Us-Paige-Dearth/dp/1502492253 Accessed 01/27/2017
1) OBV published an article about some myths and misconceptions in child sex exploitation and trafficking. Please refer to https://image.slidesharecdn.com/obvnewslettervol8vn-140610135450-phpapp01/95/one-body-village-newsletter-volume-8-13-638.jpg?cb=1407844119 Accessed 01/27/2017
2) Myths & Misconceptions reference from Human Trafficking Hotline: https://humantraffickinghotline.org/what-human-trafficking/myths-misconceptions Accessed 01/27/2017
She was abused by her own biological father at the age of 16, maybe 17. "She was really pretty, with hair that cascaded down her back not unlike that of an angel" remembers a staff member from a shelter just outside Ho Chi Minh City.
She also had a really beautiful name, meaning a bright and beautiful day. You would think that parents who name a child with such a meaningful moniker would be that with a strong education, or at the very least, a strong moral.
But no. Despite having been born and raised in District -- an area not that far from the city centre of Saigon, her family was far from civilized. When we arrived at her house to collect precious paperwork, her birth certificate, so that we could process and accept her into our home, her mother dug full a box infested with dead cockroaches, until finding her paperwork, almost destroyed by rodents.
We'll call her Angel for this story!
"Miss, can I leave her here with you, I'm never coming back"
Angel was a beautiful girl, but was a little slow on the developmental side. When she was taken into the first shelter, the sisters there had to teach her literally everything from the very beginning. She couldn't speak, but was always smiling. Her chores such as cleaning vegetables, cleaning the house....they were done very carefully, but also very slowly.
When her mother passed away, Angel was left alone with her father.
And it was then, that he started to rape her.
A trip to visit the family of a survivor, to talk to them about the option they may have to remove their child from an area of such high risk of being abused
On this particular day, before heading out to her tutoring class, she kept reminding her mother over and over to make sure to put on lots of layers of pants for her. The weather in Saigon was balmy, for what reason would she have to wear multiple pants, especially as she was well toilet trained. Concerned, the mother asked her why, to which she replied: "that man (the husband of her tutor) always takes my pants off....please put on extra pants so he can't take them off!
In Vietnam, according to the statistics from relevant authorities, on average every year sees over 1,200 children sexually abused, with another 2,000 cases of child abuse. In particular, the incidences of children being sexually abused continues to rise, with the cases also increasing in severity and complicated nature.
Abandoned by her father, and a merchant mother trying to make ends meet in a town far away, she was sent to live with her mother's sister and her husband. On one particular day, a neighbor happened to see the child and her uncle standing, with her in front bent forward, while he pressed his body against her, running his hands up and down her back. The neighbor immediately reported this to the authorities. And just in the nick of time: The uncle, caught in a compromising position, was 'only' performing lewd acts, but had not yet raped, nor had intentions to rape the child. She was only 12.
Up to 90% of incidences where young children are abused come from adults already known to the family, and usually occur because these vile adults have gained the trust of the family to have access to this child alone. Many perpetrators are patient, choosing and grooming the child very carefully, all the while gaining the child's parents/family's trust. Why do they put so much effort into these perverted activities? Obviously because they don't want to be caught. All of their extracurricular activities need to be done with utmost secrecy.
60% of children who are abused or raped grow up with abnormal behavior patters. They are complex, nervous suspicious and in general quite withdrawn from people
On the occasion of Thanksgiving, OBV would like to send our appreciation for another year of productive & effective work that reflect our & your commitment and belief in OBV Mission.
The year 2016 places emphasis on victim and survivor-centered approach in addressing the prevention and treatment of trauma as well as in public awareness and outreach on child sex exploitation and trafficking. OBV continues to educate others on the definition of child sex trafficking and sex trafficking.(1)
All of these work would not have been possible without your ardent support, your active participation and encouragement in words and kinds which propel us forward despite challenges. Even your thoughtful criticism helps us to be better in our service.
"Thank you" is not sufficient. OBV deeply appreciates all of you, each and everyone of you. May the good things in life be yours always, on Thanksgiving and throughout the year.
Sex trafficking: When an adult engages in a commercial sex act, such as prostitution, as the result of force, threats of force, fraud, coercion or any combination of such means, that person is a victim of trafficking.... This is true even if the adult previously consented to engage in such activities.
Child Sex Trafficking: When a minor is recruited, enticed, harbored, transported, provided, obtained, advertised, maintained, patronized, or solicited to engage in a commercial sex act, proving force, fraud, or coercion is not required.
Gia đình Một Thân Hình (OBV) xin thân ái chào các con, các cộng tác viên và các quý vị ân nhân…
Trong dịp Lễ Tạ Ơn, OBV xin gởi lời tri ân đến quý vị vì thành quả của OBV trong năm qua đạt dược là nhờ niềm tin vào sứ mạng của OBV và sự ủng hộ không ngừng của quý vị.
Trong năm 2016, OBV đã chú trọng đến các nạn nhân (đặc biệt là trong các trại), đến việc phòng chống và chữa trị tâm lý cũng như nâng cao nhận thức của cộng đồng về tệ nạn buôn bán và khai thác tình dục trẻ em. Chúng tôi vẫn luôn kiên trì tiếp tục tuyên truyền về tệ nạn về mua bán tình dục (nhất là mua bán tình dục trẻ em). (1)
Tất cả những công việc trên của OBV sẽ không thể thực hiện được nếu không có sự tham gia và ủng hộ của quý vị. Những lời động viên, an ủi của quý vị đã giúp chúng tôi vượt qua rất nhiều những khó khăn và trở ngại. Ngay cả những lời chỉ trích thật lòng cũng đã giúp chúng tôi làm việc tốt hơn
"Cảm ơn" thôi vẫn chưa đủ, OBV chân thành tri ân tất cả các bạn. Cầu xin mọi điều tốt đẹp nhất sẽ đến mỗi bạn, trong dịp Lễ Tạ Ơn và suốt cả năm.
Cha Thông & BS Thanh-Tâm
Buôn bán tình dục: Khi một người trên tuổi vị thành niên thực hiện một hành động tình dục có tính cách thương mại (ví dụ như: mại dâm) bởi bị áp lực kết quả của sự bắt buộc, lừa dối, đe dọa, cưỡng ép … đều là nạn nhân của việc buôn bán tình dục… Họ cũng là nạn nhân mặc dầu trước đó họ đã đồng ý tham gia vào mại dâm với áp lực.
Buôn bán tình dục ở trẻ em: Khi một người dưới tuổi vị thành niên được tuyển chọn, dụ dỗ, nuôi dưỡng, di chuyển, cung cấp, quảng cáo, duy trì, bảo trợ hoặc trưng cầu để tham gia vào hành động tình dục có tính cách thương mại …; trẻ đó là nạn nhân của việc buôn bán tình dục - không cần thiết phải được chứng minh là trẻ bị ép buộc, lừa dối, đe dọa hoặc cưỡng ép.
I have already shared with you some disturbing stories of children who have detrimental side effects from being victims of abuse: from mental anguish to inappropriate behavior, such as one of our youngest survivors, who at 5 years old would only want to watch movies with 'naked people', or our 8 year olds who wanted to drink wine with every meal. But is was our 'Little White' that captured the compassion of all the sisters in the house, a child whose body was so violated she was left with a broken pelvis, and of course....a broken spirit.
The first few months of living in the house, Little White didn't open for mouth to say anything. She would sit, curled up in a ball on a chair all day, her eyes staring but not seeing anything. After every meal, out of pure habit, she would go through the trash to look for more food. If she needed to use the restroom, she would crawl into a cupboard, or a hole in the wall....and never use the bathroom, despite being taught over and over.
At 5 years old, she could not complete a full sentence. Throughout the whole first year, the sisters patiently and tirelessly tried to teach her...by the end of it, she only absorbed exactly 3 new words, and 4 or 5 numbers and letters.
"The strangest point of all, was that she was unable to express the most basic of commands or needs, such as 'hungry', 'thirsty'....but she was able to swear and cuss that would put a sailor to shame" - House Mother.
When we accept girls into our family, they not only have a chance at education, but they get to explore extracurricular interests, such as drawing/arts and other creative outlets