CAMPAIGN AGAINST  CHILD SEX EXPLOITATION AND TRAFFICKING

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Daily Activities

From January 2015 – OBV will post some of our DAILY activities (especially our children) on our website!  Please follow them – to see how they grow!  Thank you for being part of our children’s lives!

As any other families, OBV children are expected to do the house chores.

Wednesday, 18 November 2015 00:00

Our Halloween

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Even though mom and aunties were so busy with everything, they still wanted the children to celebrate Halloween.  Since the kids' schedule for the weekend changed, most of them had to go to class on Saturday; so we ended up with four girls representing the entire family.  Uncles and aunties were the judges.  Now, let's have a look at the "ghosts" of OBV family

Friday, 13 November 2015 00:00

The little girl

Almost all parents feel a great deal of pain when their child was born under an unlucky star, not only being severely undernourished but also physically and mentally hurt. However, those who are willing to abandon their child don’t even care about it.  

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Wednesday, 11 November 2015 00:00

MONTHLY CONSULTING

When a child joins OBV family, she does not only get daily care, we also provide mental health care. Every month, OBV organises the discussion between the children and medical doctor abroad.

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The doctors work closely with OBV manager to follow-up with the mental change of each child in order to provide instant support, and help the children have certain life skills to overcome with what could happen around them. And because they went through harsh time in their life in the past, their heart and soul were hurted, their mental health will be affected a lot later on. Therefore, the careness, and discussion that the children have got help them to move on their journey.

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We truly appreciate for the time that the doctors give to our children even though the time lag, they always make it most convenient and best for our children, no matter how late they have to stay after a hard working day.

28/10/2015

OBV

Translated by Chuyện Người Trẻ. Original version in Vietnamese entitled:"Gặp nhau mỗi tháng"

Friday, 06 November 2015 00:00

The Tutor...

From a long time, OBV family focuses not to bring their children have extra classes after school or take tutor at home in order to help them to strive and self-improve. However, most of them have lost of foundation from the date of happenings, such as quitting school due to ridicule, going away from villages by threatening when the crime is revealed in light. Studying therefore interrupted and the children are just back to school when they have lived in OBV. However, because they left school too long, may be one or two years and the studying was in rural areas, they hardly keep on the same pace in the city. One volunteer has enthusiasm to come with the children every night for tutoring them on the primary school programs.

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The tutor struggled to review the basic knowledge from the start. During conversations with her, she said us that: as a teacher, she understands the “bad habits” of her pupils on classes and even at home, such as laziness, subjective thinking, cribbing, lie and talkativeness. When the studying time starts, there has someone to watch over, inspect, or suddenly check the classroom. One worried thing is the children often disorder during that time, even when the tutor has been teaching. Everyone seems to be helpless and the feelings are just like their colleagues (i.e. teachers) in the school. If they had used rod for punishment, bad habits of the children would have been controlled (however, it goes against their principles). Since no papers are required to mark, the tutor hardly checks children’s studying and they now have a “black hole” to express their “LAZINESS” virus.

We would like to appreciate the tutor for her efforts and time-consuming to help the children. She is a Catholic teacher with attitude just like a sister, and has a simple soul but full of patience, and do love volunteer activities.

Hopefully: as her living place is not far from OBV, she can help the children in long time, at least until they can reinforce basic knowledge that they had lost. Furthermore, we also hope that: The children will feel more cheerful in studying when they got lectures and also understood people’s sacrifices for them.

OBV 23/10/2015

Translated by Kelsey NC. Original version in Vietnamese entitled:"GIÁO VIÊN DẠY KÈM"

Wednesday, 04 November 2015 00:00

An urgent call

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6AM in the morning, I waked up but didn’t still get out of the bed, and suddenly the phone rang; that’s from the OBV helpline.  I took the call “ Good morning, OBV Vietnam, how may I help you?”

A man on the other line hesitated for a while… “ Is this Bridge of Happiness (another name of OBV Vietnam) that particularly help sexual abuse children?

I could see a feeling of confusion in his voice, so I immediately responded “ Yes definitely, what can I do for you?” 

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According to lawers, the crime type of child sexual abuse is now increasing considerably and the threat is all around: from subjective circumstances like having concupiscence people hire our home to stay… to unexpected situations, or the case of a 8-year-old girl abused by her teacher’s husband at teacher’s own house, although her mother still took her to school as usual.

https://www.facebook.com/cogaidolongvn/posts/10201673912804303

Recently, after the case of T.D.H. (2010) at Tan Thanh district, Long An who was abused by 14-year-old boy next door, I met and exchanged view with Ms. Yen Thao – Director of Nhip Cau Hanh Phuc (Bridge of Happiness) Chapter of Psychology Education Science. Maybe this is the only model applied sciences of psycology and education to take care of sexual abused children in Vietnam.

The house of Nhip Cau Hanh Phuc, which is located at a coastal area of Ho Chi Minh City and sponsored by Father Martino Nguyen Ba Thong (Georgia, USA), nurtures more than 20 children and takes care many children at their home, and supports school fee and medicines.

Most of the children are sent by their family to set apart from haunting living environment. When they initially came, they mostly had the first expression like stress, scare or scream. Some of them even sneaked underneath the table or the bed. About two weeks later, they got accustomed to the house and had general examination, imagery diagnosis and ultrasound. Those suspected of HIV infection would be examined to seek the solution. Clinical psycologists and therapists, including foreigners, who are working voluntarily at Nhip Cau Hanh Phuc also take part in treating the children psychologically and physically.

Nhip Cau Hanh Phuc fosters and helps sexually abused children to intergrate and change their future by studying at school and learning vocation skills. Everyone will be supported as far as they can learn, and their parents can bring them home at any time!

Note the hotline number below, so you can consult and help the children (0949754294).

PS. About T.D.H, after news buzzed on Facebook and newspapers, the attitude of government at To Van Thua’s home (Tan Lap commune, Tan Thanh district, Long An) had little changed. Reporters also found and listened to D.’s confession of abuse. However, because D. was too young to have criminal liability, there was only civil liability between two families. After discharged from Childen Hospital 2 to go to Long An, H. had to come back to Ho Chi Minh City and now she is being treated at another hospital. According to the doctor, the wound below is healed so it is hard to examine. H. continues to bleed, however, and the wound is too deep to be treated.

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Translated by Chuyện Người Trẻ. Original version in Vietnamese entitled:"Chi Hội Khoa Học Tâm Lý Giáo Dục Nhịp Cầu Hạnh Phúc"

 

Friday, 30 October 2015 00:00

Effort to integrate

Starting the new life with OBV, she has encountered some difficulties to adapt to the new environment, lifestyle, and the new daily routines that is more organized than before.  This year is also her first year in secondary school, and she has so many new things to learn.

The first few days of school, she had trouble with her learning skills, she was afraid to ask her teachers  about what she couldn't understand.  And she got some bad grades on her first exams then.

With encouragement from Mom and Aunties, she is getting on well with others and her exam grades are better, too.

Tuesday, 27 October 2015 00:00

Daily Activities - OBV Children

Picture date taken 05-26-2015

Praying

Learning English

Thursday, 22 October 2015 00:00

Daily Activities - OBV Children

Picture date taken 05-24-2015

Joining a mass

Movie time

 

Tuesday, 20 October 2015 00:00

OBV Children - Daily Activities

Picture date taken 4-26-2015

home after church

reading books

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